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got an iud, can’t have sex for 4 weeks. the guy i’m seeing said to make it 6 just to be safe 🥹 my ex would have put that 4 week mark in his calendar and held to it🙄 men vs boys
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Anonymous 5w

That’s a man who values you not what you provide! Good for you girlie!

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Anonymous 5w

That’s sweet but I’ve never heard of it being more than 48 hours after an IUD?

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Anonymous 5w

Stop trying to get pregnant… leave the back door open ;)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i was still loopy when they told me but i’m pretty sure it was 4 weeks because she wants to wait for the string check

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

4 weeks until sex without other bc maybe?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

yes i just got a new IUD and my doc said the same thing. 2 weeks no sex, 4 weeks no unprotected sex. she mentioned infection risk but i went under anesthesia so i dont remember much

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

ah yes that’s it. i got mine under anesthesia too! hope it went well

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

u can still get pregnant that way #staysafe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

YOU GOT ANETHESIA!? HOw?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

you just gotta find the right gynecologist, my first gyno specialize in high risk pregnancies, and she was very unhelpful with pain management. but I found a new gynecologist that offered a shot of strong ibuprofen and when they take pain got too bad the first appointment she said I could come back and go under anesthesia.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

i argued to get anesthesia because of trauma that would make it nearly impossible for me to mentally handle awake. my insurance approved it really quickly after my doctor sent them a letter about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

What state r u in… bcs im in Fl and they basically laughed in my face! I puked 6 times from the pain- i had a vasovagal

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