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ok, so me and this guy have been courting and dating and seeing each other for the last 6 1/2 months and we are not bf and gf. Is it wrong for me to be upset that he does not want to celebrate national girlfriends day?
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Anonymous 13h

He’s being an ass, and as a total outsider I say dumpppp

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Anonymous 15h

his birthday is next week and I have birthday reservations set for me and him, but it's kind of disappointing that regardless of the title he does not want to celebrate me as a person

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Anonymous 15h

Why are you not bf/gf is the real question/- he’s not gonna celebrate gfs day with someone who isn’t his gf, but clearly you expect it of him, so why aren’t yall official

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Anonymous 14h

I asked him so what are you going to do on national boyfriend day and he said I don’t know probably hang out with the boys. and I asked him so you would rather celebrate a fake holiday with your boys, then with your partner

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

he's saying if that's the case are you going to celebrate Mother's Day and fiancé's day as well? Which I just don't think was the point of me asking if we were celebrating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

this is both of ours first “adult” relationship and we are taking it extremely slow.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

You can take it slow sure, but why not commit? Bf/gf doesn’t have to be a big thing, and it clears up expectations

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Clearly he doesn’t see you two as in a relationship girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

There’s taking it slow and there’s being in a situationship for 6 months what negative is there in being boyfriend and girlfriend other than commitment and communication

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