make sure you’re your first priority because people will gravitate to you if you’re that confident

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i forgot to mention that ive never even BEEN on a date. not sure if ive got an avoidant attachment style or something idk. but i really truly wanna go on dates and be in a relationship but the thought of going on dates scares me bc of the fear of the unknown

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Go to the same place everyday with a book or something or nothing honestly and just sit there and the universe will start throwing out candidates

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only ever focus on yourself. so what if no « good » guy comes in your 20s. thats not what its about, twenty is for you. twenty is for when boys fuck up you drop em and move on. twenties is for the birth of the new woman you are becoming. the companionship sold to us through tv is fake. it is not real. work on yourself, do whatever you want, the right person will end up on your path as long as you are truest to only you. (as in, dont go to archery just to find a mana you meet him then what -

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have u tried dating apps? in my opinion they suck but ppl have met their soulmates on there and it’s better for introvert people who either don’t go out much or walk up to people.

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That’s really common these days, personally I’ve had a really good experience on Reddit personal ad boards, but that was only once. It’s probably best to join like a dance class or a martial arts class or something fun that you’re interested in that involves other people your age and try to meet people that way. Just keep playing the numbers game.

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Dating apps but follow through w meeting people

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