
That’s really common these days, personally I’ve had a really good experience on Reddit personal ad boards, but that was only once. It’s probably best to join like a dance class or a martial arts class or something fun that you’re interested in that involves other people your age and try to meet people that way. Just keep playing the numbers game.
in my personal experience my extroverted friend i met in college is the only way i’ve gotten with guys. We’d go to parties and bars and when i told her a guy was cute she’d walk up to him and hook us up😭 im so shy i could never, you could try having a wingman/woman to help you in social situations but i would rlly try ur best to just make the first move🤞