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What are some really good points to say in a text to my friend asking why she has totally been distancing herself from me and we have known eachother since no joke kindergarten, I’m really upset and have a really hard time expressing feelings :( tysm
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Anonymous 4w

I think the best way to approach stuff like this is to try not to make the other person wrong. I would probably say something like “hey, I feel like I’ve been noticing some distance between us lately. I just want to check in and make sure everything is ok? I just feel a little hurt/upset/worried (whatever you’re feeling) and want to make sure I didn’t something?” It’s also possible she’s going through a rough time if you want to phrase it that way. When I get really depressed I pull back from

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

People, so she could be doing the same. Good luck and I hope things work out for you guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

First tysm for helping me, this is great advice. I totally agree with the non accusatory approach because I have zero clue what might be up and it could be something like that or not. Thank you again :)

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