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i hate having anxiety. i want to reach out to a guy to see what he’s been up to but i’m so afraid of him making fun of me to his friends
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Anonymous 22h

if he makes fun of u to anybody he's a piece of shit . . . i think u should reach out with a measured/reserved approach & move quickly from txt to phone calls so you're not torturing yourself wondering if he's screenshotting y'all's comms to send to his bonehead little d friends (insults assuming they'd laugh at u)

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Anonymous 16h

girl why are you reaching out at all if that's a concern?? there's better guys out there I promise

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

he’s never made fun of me. i just always think that’s gonna happen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

even with my friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I feel you. I have this concern sometimes myself. Recently, I realized that if I live like those fears aren’t worth listening to, nothing bad happens. I think people are generally good, and if this guy is the kind of guy to mock you to his friends, he’s not worth your time and really should be embarrassed.

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