girlboard on Sidechat | Need opinions: My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months into our 4 month relationship. I want to forgive him because monogamy is very new to both of us and everyone makes mistakes. I believe in 2nd chances. Am I dumb to forgive him?

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Need opinions: My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months into our 4 month relationship. I want to forgive him because monogamy is very new to both of us and everyone makes mistakes. I believe in 2nd chances. Am I dumb to forgive him?

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Anonymous 16w

Yes - now he knows cheating isn’t your breaking point and will keep pushing it

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Anonymous

#1 16w

Even if I told him I can forgive one instance of cheating but that if he does it again it’s over ?

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OP 16w

yes because if it’s an issue for you, you shouldn’t be with him. also are you really forgiving him or are you lying to yourself? if you established that you’re monogamous then he’ll never get better if he’s already cheating, trust me

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