Anonymous OP 1w

U okay? Dw just pull the trigger you’re doing what’s needed for both

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sometimes, people you’re with are the people you needed at the time. Once you realize that you’ve changed enough that you don’t fit together anymore, it’s time to consider changing what your relationship with them is. Not to mention the multiple red flags in this. You are a strong person who’s grown for 4 years. You’ve changed so much about your life, for the better! You can do this change too.

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Anonymous #2 1w

i just have so much guilt cus i'm in so deep. i feel like he's loves me and i love him, i just do not feel attraction towards him

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Anonymous OP 1w

Well sometimes people grow apart and it’s no one’s fault just life. It’s a conscious choice you make to be with them and fight for them cuz of that love and that’s what’s true attraction fails, activities fails, even the person fails you and you fail them sometimes but love and effort lives on but it’s all about is it worth fighting for my energy into this if I fight for it and force him to be better (do I want to force someone to be better?) will in 1-2 years I will want him to propose? Marry

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Anonymous #1 1w

Have his kids? If not pull the trigger if yes or maybe think more if you want anyone to talk to my DM’s are always open I’ll listen

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Anonymous #1 1w

i feel like he's would be a great dad and father, but he has a lot of growing to do. his personality and morals are great, he just needs to grow up a bit. plus as i said, i've really never been super attracted to him but it's been getting worse since i've started to actually work on myself. i used to feel like i could only be with a guy like him cus i didn't deserve better but now ik i can do better. i just love him as a person and it makes is super hard

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Anonymous OP 1w

What’s attraction anyways superficial is what it is you clearly want to grow more(explore more) on some level as you’re self worth is up now and want to feel what you can get with that how much better you can do and that’s fine just be honest with yourself atleast and not anyone’s kids but yours it might be about his growth and growing up but is it exaggerated cuz of the underlying reason? You want to feel what it’s like to be wanted by someone who u think is your standard now on some level

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Anonymous #1 1w

exactly

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Anonymous #1 1w

And if that’s it then break up he’ll do the growing once you break up most guys do and then you take the risk but up to you just be honest with yourself atleast

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Anonymous #1 1w

yeah that's fair

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yup just don’t loose yourself in getting your standard to chase you a lot of people do and it’s bad

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yessss!!! If he says he isn’t attracted to you and treats himself very poorly you deserve much better ❤️

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Anonymous OP 1w

Congratulations! How you feeling?

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Anonymous #2 1w

v numb actually

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m sorry if you wanna talk I DM’d you

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