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i feel the ick for me bf. he doesnt do anything to take care of himself. he sleeps in till 11, doesnt eat healthy and doesnt go to the gym. i've never been fully attracted to him but after 4 years of me growing (cus he said he wasn't attracted to me) ...
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Anonymous 8w

we broke up!

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Anonymous 8w

... i can't do it anymore. i'm scared he's gna hold me back from taking care of myself but im scared im alr too codependent

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Anonymous 8w

I just tried to explain how I felt to him and he went on Instagram while I was talking.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Sometimes, people you’re with are the people you needed at the time. Once you realize that you’ve changed enough that you don’t fit together anymore, it’s time to consider changing what your relationship with them is. Not to mention the multiple red flags in this. You are a strong person who’s grown for 4 years. You’ve changed so much about your life, for the better! You can do this change too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

i just have so much guilt cus i'm in so deep. i feel like he's loves me and i love him, i just do not feel attraction towards him

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Anonymous 8w

i feel like he's would be a great dad and father, but he has a lot of growing to do. his personality and morals are great, he just needs to grow up a bit. plus as i said, i've really never been super attracted to him but it's been getting worse since i've started to actually work on myself. i used to feel like i could only be with a guy like him cus i didn't deserve better but now ik i can do better. i just love him as a person and it makes is super hard

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Anonymous 8w

exactly

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Anonymous 8w

yeah that's fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Yessss!!! If he says he isn’t attracted to you and treats himself very poorly you deserve much better ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Congratulations! How you feeling?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

v numb actually

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