
Sometimes, people you’re with are the people you needed at the time. Once you realize that you’ve changed enough that you don’t fit together anymore, it’s time to consider changing what your relationship with them is. Not to mention the multiple red flags in this. You are a strong person who’s grown for 4 years. You’ve changed so much about your life, for the better! You can do this change too.
i feel like he's would be a great dad and father, but he has a lot of growing to do. his personality and morals are great, he just needs to grow up a bit. plus as i said, i've really never been super attracted to him but it's been getting worse since i've started to actually work on myself. i used to feel like i could only be with a guy like him cus i didn't deserve better but now ik i can do better. i just love him as a person and it makes is super hard