Oh got you dodged a bullet… the way he’s speaking to you is NOT cute 😭

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Everytime I brought up my feelings I was nuts or overthink or crazy

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You cannot save someone who wants to keep drowning

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YIKES you dodged a bullet

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I did everything for him, so much :(

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I just wanted him to do better but he didn’t want to deep down. And I kept asking him if this is the path he’s going to take

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The disrespect and gaslighting is insane, you deserved better from the get go. But also people with addictions tend to not be the same people they are when they’re sober. They develop this sense of idgaf because they just don’t care anymore, they want their next fix. He needs help and he was always going to choose the alcohol over you, addicts can’t have functioning relationships while they’re using

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Thanks for the kind words. I really needed it

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sounds like a wiener

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yikes throwing around the r word too, you can do so much better than that pos

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oh girl u were WAY too nice about it 💀 I would’ve been so much more angry

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Okay even if he did have a valid reason to think you’re being overdramatic, why is he speaking to you like that 🤨

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girl he did you a favor by leaving better not to waste your time

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Don’t settle for less. This is a bare minimum expectation for a healthy relationship. Do not forget that.

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what a loser

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Boys simply do not like someone who wants better for them. They will prefer someone who just condones their negative and self harming behaviors because they don’t feel pressured to become a better person

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Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I’m also so proud of you for knowing your worth and walking away. It’s clear to anyone reading this that you are not crazy, you were perfectly reasonable and lovely. He on the other hand was rude, disrespectful, and out of line. I’m glad you got away from that but I’m sure it hurts immensely right now, especially with such a volatile end. Hang in there and feel free to dm if you need anything ❤️

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Had the same thing with boyfriend of two years and we ended because he chose every weekend to have guys friends come up and drink with him and I asked for 12 weeks to have one weekend where we could hangout without them without drinking and go on a date… it never happened so we broke up and it’s been the biggest relief to dodge being with someone like that

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he is gaslighting and manipulative

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so this is actually insane. he’s being so antagonistic and dismissive of your feelings (plus the r word is enough of a red flag). you deserve better love <3

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YOU WERE TOO NICE AHHHHHHH!!!!! But good on you being the bigger and smarter person

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It’s just like I know I’m anxious and I’m not perfect but I feel like I asked for things he couldn’t give.

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Ughhh I hate when I’m the last one to leave a message. Usually bc I hate getting no response. (Which is literally how my last convo with my ex ended around Christmas).

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