
Well we realized real fast that we couldn’t live together. My ex was very particular about stuff being insanely clean (I’m a clean person but literally it seemed like we had to deep clean everything) and also my ex made me have my own meat pan to cook in because my ex was pescatarian and couldn’t stand the smell of meat (had to open up windows in the winter to cook in an instant pot). Ik my experience is a super extreme case but it does help see how your relationship stands cause it’s a big step