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Those of you who moved in w your partner - how did your relationship change
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Anonymous 5d

Realized I like being alone and independent much more than sharing a space with someone. Our rls didn’t survive and now I think I don’t want to move in with my partner until we can afford seperate rooms and bathrooms apart from each other

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Anonymous 5d

not much we just grew closer but i do end up having discussions on sharing chores

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Anonymous 4d

Well we realized real fast that we couldn’t live together. My ex was very particular about stuff being insanely clean (I’m a clean person but literally it seemed like we had to deep clean everything) and also my ex made me have my own meat pan to cook in because my ex was pescatarian and couldn’t stand the smell of meat (had to open up windows in the winter to cook in an instant pot). Ik my experience is a super extreme case but it does help see how your relationship stands cause it’s a big step

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah me and my boyfriend are looking at 2 bed apartments rn bc we’re also each the kinda people that need our alone time. My sister asked me if I thought our dynamic would change once we move and was wondering about others experiences!

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