Anonymous #1 8w

I thought so too. Idk how though cuz everytime I try to, I find myself checking if he’s messaged. Like rn, he’s viewed my story but not replied to my messages. It drives me crazy. But I’ll have to try. Ty xx

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Anonymous OP 8w

I know, it’s the worst. The best advice I have is to stay busy, to where you can’t be checking your phone like that

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Anonymous #1 8w

Thank you, I’ll have to try. I can’t keep doing what I’m doing xx

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Anonymous OP 8w

You got this queen🫶

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Anonymous #1 8w

Thank youuuu 🩷🩷

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Anonymous #2 8w

Are you over it yet? Idk what I’ll do when he gets a girlfriend. 😔

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Anonymous OP 8w

not yet. it happened recently so i am still processing. idk what i’ll do either. it hurts because he is perfect and we align on everything i just dont know what happened for him to look elsewhere. 😣

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Anonymous #2 8w

This is literally the same for me rn. He hasn’t said he’s talking to anyone else though. He did a 180 and said he doesn’t like me even though he literally said he does and made it seem like I actually had a chance. I’d wait an eternity for that man, he’s like the perfect one for me and idk what happened. We had like nearly everything in common. I should ask why but I’ve asked him too many questions about it already. I don’t think I’ll ever get over it. We will get through this together girl xxx

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Anonymous OP 8w

aw im so sorry girl. I want to ask the same like did you lose interest in me? why? i need explainations but I asked him too much already like you said. and same on the everything in common. for me it feels like he is friendzoning me. we had plans for me to visit him and i still might one last time and ask him stuff then idk. but i dont want to sound like i am begging him. it’s rough but we will get through it <3

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Anonymous #2 8w

Oh he’s friendzoned me so bad. Like we still talk everyday and he’s acting like nothing happened and like we’re friends again. I let that boy take me on a date for my 18th birthday and then next day he’s lost interest. I have a feeling it’s because I was not that talkative on the date but I was like shit scared cuz I’ve never liked someone that much. I’ve been told to pull back which I’m trying to do but it’s soooo hard. We will get through this. I believe in us xx 🫶🩷

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Anonymous OP 7w

How is it going girl?

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Anonymous #2 7w

We had a big argument cuz I made a joke and he twisted it to seem like I was saying he can’t have friends. NEVER SAID THAT BTW. Sooo it’s safe to assume in soooo over him. I just needed him to act like a dick to realise it. I think we’re still good though, as friends ofc. But I just needed to realise that there was a reason we weren’t meant to be together. I think I’ll always still like him a little bit, but if he came to me rn and asked me out, I’d probably be a bit more weary and say no icl x

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Anonymous #2 7w

What about you girl!? How’s it going xx

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Anonymous OP 7w

That’s wild. Well I am glad yoy got your firm answer that he doesn’t deserve you. You will find someone who will treat you the best way and will be perfect :). For me, so far kinda the same. I need to talk to him to clear stuff up. I am sort of at peace with it but something still confuses me because it was so sudden. we were basically dating and then it just stopped. idk. i am planning on talking to him soon and I will try to do it in person bc it would be better that way yknow.

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Anonymous OP 7w

I am glad you’ve been able to sort of move on too! More peace of mind. love ya x

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Anonymous #2 7w

I feel like if you do talk to him about it, you have to be ready for whatever answer he gives. I believe in you girl! Update me when you do? xxx

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Anonymous #2 7w

🩷🩷🩷

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Anonymous OP 7w

I will be sure to. yeah i will prepare myself beforehand!

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Anonymous #2 7w

You’ve got this x

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Anonymous OP 7w

thank you :)

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Anonymous OP 6w

update: he is planning on pursuing the girl he is talking to. I dont think he realizes that it’s hurting me but I am one of his only close “friends” so I am trying to be supportive. I havent shown him any tears or complained or anything so I think he thinks I am over him. It hurts a lot but I have to learn to let go. He was even having issues with this girl, complaining about things that wouldnt have been an issue if he had chosen me. I am watching him walk away and choose to wait for this girl.

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Anonymous #2 6w

he is choosing the hard path and I just have to listen to him and pretend like its all ok. I think I will mention something about how I am feeling but not right now when he is going through some stuff with her.

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Anonymous #2 6w

He wants her and is willing to wait through her mess which is beautiful and exactly what I would ask for if I were her. But I am not

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Anonymous #2 6w

I am sure it will get better :)

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Anonymous #2 6w

Oh honey I’m so sorry. That must feel like hell. It’s easier said than done but you don’t have to keep talking to him. Even just a tiny bit of distance might help your heart breathe a little. I know it probably doesn’t feel like it, but there are other people out there who won’t make you feel like this. It took me forever to learn that myself. As painful as it is at the moment, this doesn’t mean you’re not enough. It just means he wasn’t your person, and that’s okay. It sucks, but it’s okay.

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Anonymous OP 6w

Take some time for yourself, please. And try not to overthink or justify his actions, I know the brain goes straight there, but it only makes everything hurt more. You deserve peace. You’re not going through this alone. I’m right here, for anything you need. I might be a complete stranger, but I found that it might help talking to someone you don’t know. You can always talk to me, whenever. Ily girl xxx

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Anonymous #2 6w

The guy I was talking to, I’m not completely over. He’s starting to leave me on opened and just acting like a dick overall but somehow, I still can’t fully stop thinking about him. It’s been over a month but I don’t feel for him the way I did on my birthday, yet it seems to still upset me when he acts like this. Idk, feelings are confusing 💔🤣 x

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Anonymous OP 6w

Yeah I know I have to distance myself. It’s just doing that that is hard. Thanks for the encouragement and thanks for being someone I can talk to. I’m here too if you need to talk too :) Ilyt It will be difficult to not think about him anymore for me too. I met him over a year ago and even when we barely kept in touch I thought about him every single day. Now that things are more complicated and deeper, it’s gonna be tough. I’m sorry that the guy you were talking too is acting that way.

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Anonymous #2 6w

You don’t deserve it but it’s probably for the best. It would probably be easier for me a little if the guy I was talking to flat out rejected me or acted poorly right off the bat so I didnt need to go through this, but here we are. Feelings are confusing haha 🥲

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Anonymous #2 6w

I genuinely believe that we can both get through this. Thank you for being here xx

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Anonymous OP 6w

Yes I am sure too :) x Also dm me just so we dont have to use this thread if we wanna talk lol

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Anonymous #2 6w

I have no idea how to lmaooo it won’t let me 🥲🤣

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Anonymous OP 6w

😂 I think it’s the 3 dots near the message and then idk there should be 3 options?

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Anonymous #2 6w

Got it!!

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