Anonymous #1 21h

Seeking!

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Anonymous #1 21h

You could try high end hotel bars if you’re near in a big city

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Anonymous #2 21h

My friend knows people that had a lot of success with that, but I don’t think she’s done it herself

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Anonymous OP 21h

This one is the only place I’ve ever found legit sugar daddies

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Anonymous #3 21h

What else have u tried?

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Anonymous OP 21h

It’s the only sugar dating app I’ve used but people have propositioned me on here or Reddit, etc.

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Anonymous #3 21h

As long as you know what you’re getting into, there’s nothing wrong with it!

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Anonymous #3 21h

Reddit has a bunch of scammers from what heard

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Anonymous #3 21h

100% agree

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Anonymous #2 21h

I absolutely agree!

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Anonymous OP 21h

Yeah it’s kind of a mosh pit

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Anonymous #3 20h

It’s a form of sex work, and nothing wrong with it!

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Anonymous #1 20h

Same

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Anonymous OP 18h

Just commenting to say found mine here too so legit works

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Anonymous #3 18h

I always think about this when I see girls looking for sugar daddies but don’t want to give anything on their end sexually. Like i understand, but there is sort of just that reality to the agreement 9/10

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Anonymous #6 18h

My rules money then stuff bc I’ve had ppl scam me

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Anonymous #6 18h

They can but it’s extremely rare

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Anonymous #2 18h

Maybe like if ppl aren’t cringe and open up with send me ur pics trust me I’ve seen it work a lot smoother when we are treated well

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Anonymous #3 17h

Wouldn’t escorting be better if it’s just “prostitution with extra bells and whistles”?

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Anonymous #7 17h

I think there are pros and cons I enjoy that it’s just one guy not multiple

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Anonymous #7 16h

It depends on what you want. In general (and in my opinion), in sugar dating you have one (or very few) “clients”, “boyfriends”, whatever. Instead of giving you cash the focus is much more on supporting your “lifestyle” (whether that’s things like designer bags, or things like rent, or both). There is not always an agreed upon amount of money and meeting times— you are expected to be available more in the way you would with someone you are dating, and there might be spontaneous gifts.

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Anonymous #7 16h

I think most people in this situation probably would choose escorting, they have more freedom and less commitment to one person

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Anonymous #7 16h

You might do things with the man, like dates and vacations. I’d also say there is a higher ceiling for how much money/ value you can get from each man in sugaring. So if (like me) you like clear boundaries, more independence, being able to do what you want with your money, and treating the sex more like a job you might prefer escorting. If you prefer being taken care of, doing exciting things, getting gifts and having a lavish lifestyle, and only dealing with one man, sugaring might be better

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Anonymous #2 16h

I might be presenting it in a biased way because I prefer escorting. And of course many people choose sugaring just because there’s less stigma. But one big factor that I forgot to mention in my two super long comments lmao. Escorting is much more dangerous. In sugaring, because you have fewer men there is less risk. If you only have one man that you’ve already vetted that’s much more safe than meeting new men often. Prostitution(including sugaring) can be very dangerous.

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Anonymous #8 16h

They are gonna take advantage of u

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Anonymous #5 16h

I’m smart

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Anonymous #8 16h

My friend though she was too 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #2 16h

commitment is the big issue, my mom used to do escorting after she ran away from my abusive father there was no way she could have handled a sugar relationship

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Anonymous #9 16h

Omg I’m sorry that happened

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Anonymous #8 16h

Sugaring is a transaction. It doesn’t ALWAYS involve sex, but if you don’t know what you’re selling, that’s a problem because you are selling something.

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Anonymous #3 16h

This is true my friend only sold photos of her unused socks until the guy found out where she goes and kidnapped and *aped her

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Anonymous #5 16h

This is crazy and I’m so sorry. This definitely doesn’t happen to everyone but it does show that even if you are being careful sex work is dangerous. Full stop, no way around it.

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Anonymous #9 16h

My aunt was in a similar situation but she started stripping to pay the bills and take care of her child

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Anonymous #7 16h

I’m sorry, I hope she’s in a much better place now

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Anonymous #10 5h

Go on dates and sex

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