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My mom keeps telling me to put a bra on in the house (under my pajamas mind u) but it’s so awkward cause no one else cares except for her and she’s says it’s only “decent” like what😭 like idk who’s in the wrong atp
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Anonymous 7w

Yk what you’re right they’re just nipples

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Anonymous 7w

i’m sorry bra under pajamas is diabolical😭 ur around family, i assume it’s just like a little nip shadow under a shirt which is not a big deal at ALLLLLL

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Anonymous 7w

girl please don’t listen to these fools- your chest isn’t inherently sexual and doesn’t need to be covered up!!! do what makes YOU comfortable this is your life and you don’t need to cater to other people. the idea of that you NEED to be covered 24/7 is gross and so male centered. your chest is a natural part of your body and not something you should ever feel ashamed of, and i am so sorry people are making you feel that way <3

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Anonymous 7w

i think she should be asking herself why she’s so focused on it?

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Anonymous 6w

Thank u all for ur help in the comments!

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Anonymous 7w

your mom is in the wrong

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah that’s kinda fucked up, put a bra on, no one wants to see your nipples and no way you’re comfy like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

literally so much more comfortable without a bra. Everyone has nipples, not sure why it’s such a bad thing when women go braless but men can go shirtless and it’s not a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

No I know it’s more comfy, men can do it bc they’re men, but you have to have respect for yourself as a woman and respect for your family I’m sure if you had a boyfriend with some standards he wouldn’t want you hanging around the family without a bra on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

It’s not always about comfort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Are you a man? Because everything you’re saying sounds like shit a man would say.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

“Men can do it bc they’re men” is so sexist lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

No 💁‍♂️ how about it’s common sense asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Would you want to see your daughters tits hanging around the house like what

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

So we’re tearing down other women for doing what’s comfortable? My comfortability is more important to me than other people’s comfortability. I grew up in a family that taught me that my needs come first. If a man is uncomfortable that my natural body that I was born and blessed with is showing, oh well. I go out in public braless and do not give a single fuck about anyone else’s opinions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I genuinely wouldn’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

So why would your mom tell you to do the opposite 💁‍♂️💁‍♂️💁‍♂️💁‍♂️, also if your need is to be comfortable over having respect for your family you’re a problem. And if you think “showing” your body off in public and not giving a fuck about other people’s “opinions” is okay then you’re cooked because do you not care if a child is around what are you a pedophile

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

why tf would a bf actively not want her wearing normal pajamas around family???

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Because the older generation is typically old fashioned. Why is your mind automatically going to what children think? Are YOU a pedophile? Nipples are literally apart of everyone’s body, the only reason it’s taboo is because people like you constantly feed into the stigma and sexualize women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Yeah, they are just nipples, i see nothing wrong with this picture

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

yes exactly!!! it’s a natural part of ur body no need to be ashamed :)!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

If a dude has a dick print out it’d be cool too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Yeah, because it’s natural. It’s part of their natural body. You just seem to constantly sexualize everything dontcha?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’m not sexualizing, I named a natural part of the body idk where you’re getting that from

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Also I’m done talking to you, you’re fucking stupid and clearly set in your ways, one day you’ll understand, and if your mom asks you to have some respect for your family, have some respect for your family at the cost of your comfort once in a while and stop being selfish

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Woah woah woah, no need to be so hostile. Name calling isn’t very cool man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

btch i walk around my family half n@ked. im sorry yours makes you so uncomfortable tha you think you need to be dressed like a mormon but some people have normal family relations and don’t feel the need to cover themselves like they’re in public

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

would it really matter ?? if she came out my vag i think that’s the least of the concerns

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

exactlyyyy like girlll if you feel the need to cover your natural body that everyone has in front of your FAMILY you need to reevaluate why you’re feeling the need to protect yourself from being sexualized from FAMILY members? that should never ever be an issue no one in your family should ever be looking at you in that manner, and i’m very sorry if you are feeling that way and i wish that you find a safe space in the future.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

bro forgot that the literal point of boobs is to feed kids. boobs are like top ten things designed for babies. no fuck that, TOP item designed for babies, period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’m wondering if ur really a girl or one of the guys who come on here to heckle girls 😭 if u care: I have lots of respect for my family and my family has lots of respect for me. I talked about it with my mom and she said it’s mostly to “prevent future” sagging that she said that but we both did research about it and we have come to the conclusion that when I wear a bra doesn’t matter. None of the other ppl in my house r remotely bothered by it so it’s not a respect thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I am comfy like that cause the people in my family aren’t pervs 😭 my mom apparently just said that cause she was misinformed about the “dangers” of not wearing a bra but I have showed her other wise and she’s ok with it now. The idea that FAMILY should be weirded out by ur features is gross

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