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if you were supposed to go to dinner with a guy (first time) and he was gonna pick you up at 6 but you haven’t heard from him all day and didn’t talk about it yesterday either would you still go? or say you’re not going anymore
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Anonymous 3w

nah i wouldn't

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Anonymous 3w

like hasn’t even confirmed where to pick me up from

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Anonymous 3w

I mean if he hasn’t confirmed it (especially if you explicitly asked if plans were still good) then I’d assume it’s not happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I wouldn’t just blow him off and be like “whatever I’m not going” if there hasn’t even been an attempt to confirm plans tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

i texted this morning and haven’t even gotten a hey hello how are you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Hmmmmmm yeahhhhh I mean I’d give it until like 3-ish and then just assume that they’re ghosting. They could be busy until closer to the time of the date but even still I feel like it’s letting the red flag peek out if they can’t even give a “hey I’m too busy to talk but excited to hang later.” Like that’s bare minimum atp

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