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Hi guys. I’m needing some support right now. I currently am going through a breakup, it’s been a month and a half now since it happened. Ik he was toxic, narcissistic, & lied all the time but why can’t I get over him, or miss him still? I feel stupid. ☹️
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Anonymous 1w

You got this girl, he isn’t worth your sadness

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Anonymous 1w

You’re not stupid! That’s a totally understandable and valid feeling to have! In my communications class we learned that when we develop relationships with somebody, we form a special ‘language’ with that person that is exclusive, and essentially can’t be replicated with someone else. So even though you’re aware of him being toxic, your subconscious is missing the specific way of communication that you had with him. This is perfectly normal! (1/2)

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Anonymous 1w

Girl you deserve better

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Anonymous 1w

The best way to go about this is so accept your emotions, try not to over analyze, and accept that with time, these emotions will pass and are temporary! You always deserve to feel happy and understood!! Sending hugs! (2/2)

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Anonymous 1w

It’s really hard but you’ll be better off without him!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

omg!! this helped me SO much putting everything in perspective bc I’ve been feeling so insane since logically my feelings don’t make any true sense yk? thank you sm for sharing & taking the time to do that 😊

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

true. gotta remember that…if he was worth it he woulda shown up. thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> 4thgradeteacher 1w

ty!! any support means a lot rn 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Exactly!

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