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I was informed yesterday that my ex-best friend’s bf of several years cheated on her/broke up with her. Should I reach out to her? (I’ve had her blocked for 2ish years)
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No keep her blocked
Yes reach out to her
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Anonymous 10h

I feel like it depends on why you stopped being friends. I have two ex-best friends, one we just stopped being friends because of communication issues and I would totally reach out to her, but the other is a very long and completely different story and I probably wouldn’t reach out to her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

What was the situation w the second one? I stopped talking to mine bc she was super mean to/jealous of other women & bc she only wanted to hang out with me if her bf was busy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

Long story very short she essentially iced me out while still calling herself my best friend, would plan stuff I wasn’t invited to in front of me, ignored my texts while responding to other people in gc I was in so I knew she was on her phone, ignored me in group settings, talked shit behind my back, lied to my face, and then blamed it on stress from college applications.

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