
She may not have felt comfortable voicing it until more recently. I have a literal medical condition that risks an ER trip if I’m exposed to THC and I STILL have to work up the nerve to ask neighbors to keep their smoke outside the shared ventilation system. Could be her personality/people pleasing/low confrontation, could be her deciding to fuck with you, but analysis needs context from other interactions with her. The sister being asked beforehand, if true, is a good sign this isn’t assholery