Anonymous #2 20w

I literally stopped all contact with him and went out of my way to get moved to another department at work. Which I didn't have to and shouldn't have had to do.

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Anonymous #2 20w

hot take but it’s literally not the girls responsibility to stop unless the man is like feeling harassed. that’s on ur man not on her

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Anonymous #4 20w

Its on both but the majority of the responsibility falls on the guy. But why would u want to be part of that anyways

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Anonymous #4 20w

why would you knowingly flirt with a cheater tho 😭

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Anonymous #7 20w

I mean it’s a weird choice imo but it’s a personal thing. I wouldn’t do it but like if someone “stole” my man I would say thank u. If he wants to cheat he will and I would be glad to lose someone who respected me that little. she can have him type thing yk?

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Anonymous #4 20w

I still think it’s heinous to knowingly take part in something like that. Being an accessory to cheating - fully aware of what’s happening - is still cruel. I’d never want to be friends with someone who was willing to do that. That said, the cheating boyfriend will *always* be the common denominator. OP, I’m so sorry you got dragged into this. 😭 I suspect folks would rather criticize a woman who knew nothing than hold accountable a man who deliberately chose to cheat.

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Anonymous #4 20w

this convo makes me glad I’ve chosen not to date, holy

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Anonymous #4 19w

It’s on him that he’s a cheater, I also do think it’s wrong to knowingly take part in someone cheating

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