I forget sometimes men have diff fears from women bc I was explaining my biggest fear is not being able to defend myself from rape, in a fight, or even being killed and my guy friends were like “wow I’ve never considered being scared of that”
no i’ve been overpowered by a man who was shorter than me and it was terrifying. that’s one reason i’m trying to gain weight and muscle but my health issues are preventing me :(
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Anonymous2w
as a woman this was my fear too and now i carry conceal. Fear completely went away bc i know i can defend myself and my friends if something terrible were to happen
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Anonymous#42w
I’m so sorry that happened to you babe:((
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AnonymousOP2w
thank you
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Anonymous#42w
I can unfortunately kinda relate, I’m very sorry that happened to you.
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Anonymous#62w
^ For weight gain, I have been drinking some of my calories since my stomach is very sensitive and I’m like 90% sure I have ibs
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Anonymous#62w
yeah i might try smoothies or blended soup but i have 2 different conditions that cause malabsorption so it’s very hard. i’ve been trying to gain weight for years