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my ex said without thinking that im going to come back from college a completely different person and that comment lives rent free in my head I don’t want to lose myself

Anonymous 1d

Like #1 said, you are not losing yourself by changing. Youre finding yourself and aligning with the person you havent had a chance to meet yet. College brought me a slew of new experiences and opportunities, good and bad, and I could not be prouder of the person I am becoming. You’re doing great, you have plenty of other things to worry about, dont let this take up any more of your time or energy🤍

Anonymous 1d

Youre not losing yourself if youre still being true to yourself. You can change as a person in a million different ways, but as long as you arent lying to yourself you arent losing yourself!!!

Anonymous

#1 1d

ty for the encouragement

Anonymous

#1 1d

im not scared of change but im scared of like looking in the mirror and not recognizing myself

Anonymous

#2 1d

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OP 1d

The truth is youre never going to change overnight. You might not recognize your old self in you, but staying in the same place and being the same person means youre never growing. You cant grow into the person you are meant to be without changing a little.