Make sure its what you want after care is important dont let them ignore you after they got pleasured make sure you also enjoy it stay safe do condoms if not plan b the next few hours to the next day dont do it during ovulation or fertile window during or after period is safer your check if they got any stds pee afterwards and have fun!

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everything everyone else said, but also foreplay is sooo important!! my first time was kind of painful even with some foreplay. if you’re worried about pain you could use toys to practice - in my experience i had to get used to the feeling before i could enjoy it. have fun!!

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Pee after sex (like within the first 30 minutes) Hydrate before and after Don’t stress, it’ll be amazing 😉 Condom, if you don’t know the guy well (or even if you do) bring your own to make sure they’re not tampered If you’re really nervous, plan b for the day after And always get tested after (maybe ask for him to test first too? That’s a Personal option)

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It’s good to pee before and after, rinse off or wipe up with a wet rag after to prevent UTIs Use protection, make sure the person respects you and your safety, if you ain’t getting head, don’t give head🙄 pleasure should go both ways. Let him give u head first lmao.

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it makes me so happy to see such good advice in here! don’t be afraid to ask for what you want!! have so much fun!

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Thank you all for the advice!!!

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Don’t forget to take a breath, first time is always a little intimidating. Honesty and communication are the best things to remember. Sex is almost never like porn! It’s okay if you laugh or there’s awkward moments

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