
…. You traumatized her for what reason? There were so many better options before “suprise his mom with her adult sons genitals in a sexualized context”. Sometimes good people raise terrible people and it’s not for lack of trying to raise them to be kind & considerate. Now she’s embarrassed and anxious to be at work but he’s an adult and he’s responsible for his own choices atp. Two ppl in your story are absolute weirdos & it’s not the mom.