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Any plus size girlies here? It’s been years since I’ve been intimate with anybody (see 13yrs), i know things are gonna get down between me and my boyfriend, I’m excited but also really nervous. Any advice, encouragement, etc before going into this?
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Anonymous 5d

I’m not plus sized but just a reminder that you have nothing to be self conscious of during sex !!!! And don’t be afraid to communicate what does/doesn’t feel good because both you AND your boyfriend are figuring it out together :)

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Anonymous 4d

Ditto to what the other girlie in the thread said, but my biggest advice as a girl (usually 240 but just dropped to 220) is to shower beforehand if able. That always makes me feel better, even if it’s a few hours before. As for the act, make sure you’re open and honest about what feels good and what doesn’t. Sex should be enjoyable and fun no matter what size you are! Good luck girlie, we’re rooting for you.

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Anonymous 3d

Don’t be self conscious of your body . They knew you were plus size before they tried to sleep with you. Set boundaries, and make sure you have safe fun !

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Omg do you mind if we chat? I have so many questions 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Ofc!! Shoot me a dm if you wanna

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