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men are so scary. i go out late a lot bc i work evenings 2-10 and i am so scared of being assaulted
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Anonymous 20h

Pepper spray, concealed carry or a good man can help with that

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Anonymous 17h

I’m so sry girl

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Anonymous 16h

This is such a dumb reason for me to feel safer but I have a “wedding ring” I got myself to wear if I’m wearing more “sexualized” outfits in public (I’m COVERED but I get more ill-intended comments from men when I wear thigh high socks or fishnets). I just like the idea of having a quick “I’m engaged” out bc some men can’t take “no thank you” for an answer (and I don’t know how to be assertive with saying no lol)

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Anonymous 16h

Pleaaaasseee get smth for self defense and keep it on you like pepper spray.

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Anonymous 16h

If something EVER happens, instead of yelling “help me!“ yell “fire!”

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Anonymous 13h

carry shit that makes you seem like a hard target, like an umbrella

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Anonymous 9h

make sure someone has your location too plus the other things everyone else has said !! i carry pepper spray, a knife, and my friends have my location

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Anonymous 16h

Don’t go out

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

read the post again she needs to go out FOR WORK

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

No…she goes out late bcs she works till 10… Are you dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

She’s saying she’s out late to go to work not that she’s going out late after work

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

are you? She’s saying that she is out late because of her job. She’s probably getting a little bit of shopping done after her shift (if she’s retail), getting gas, getting food, whatever, at like 10:30-11:30pm

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

even if she was going out late a solution isn’t “socially isolated yourself” it’s “men need to be better”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

When you’re walking alone at night DO NOT TALK TO ANYBODY who approaches you (even if it looks like they need help), don’t wear headphones and be alert of ur surroundings at all times.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

(Coming from someone who’s worked late night shifts even in highschool and had to walk in a dangerous city at night)

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 15h

It kind of makes sense but it’s still not enough to protect u from men who have ill intentions. Although it’s def important to keep yourself hidden for the most part and not wear flashy things. I used to wear boyish/baggy clothes if I was out alone at night to blend in to try and not make myself a target.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

U sound very privileged to be saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9h

you seem to be the dumb one

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