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I really need some encouragement words. Broke up with my 3 year bf and i genuinely dont feel like ill ever find someone again. Its only been 2 days but im genuinely in such a dark hole. Will it ever stop
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Anonymous 3w

It will stop. It genuinely does take time and unfortunately it HURTS like hell. But as time goes on you’ll worry about other things. Right now it’s okay to cry and mourn what you once had. Feel your feelings. Let it all out. When you finally get that “I did deserve better” feeling you’ll start to regain your own self confidence. Because right now it’s a better time to refocus on yourself and reflect. I know it hurts and I wish I could hug you but with the right people around you I think you’ll

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Anonymous 3w

as someone who is FINNALLY over the boy i was in love with. there is a joy inside me now that ive never felt before. i learned how resilient and fun and genuine i am and i love being alone!!

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Anonymous 3w

Oh it’s gonna hurt for a while. It may even feel like physical pain. But it will get easier, I promise. Stay connected with friends and loved ones as much as possible and prioritize self care. Alternate between positive distractions and feeling the grief. Cry, journal, scream into a pillow, whatever gets the energy out, as much as you need to. Leave room for reflection, you will learn a lot about yourself from this. But don’t ruminate, spend time being active and out of your head; it’s a balance

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Anonymous 3w

It stops. Girly me and my boyfriend broke off two years and I started focusing more on school and meeting up with my friends for coffee and just being busy with a good group of people and it’s been better. Acknowledge the bad days look forward to the good ones and strive to have better days

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Anonymous replying to -> cunteey 3w

Be okay in the long run.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You will find someone in time. And you will carry what you learned into your next experience. You will be okay, I promise 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

At first it’s going to hurt a lot most of every day. Then it will hurt part of every day. Then, you’ll get some days where you don’t hurt much. Then, most days you won’t hurt much. Eventually, it will be a dull ache, with occasional sharp pangs. It won’t be linear, but you will hurt less and less as time goes on. Especially if you take care of yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

As someone who has been through this, it sucks ASS but you do get through it

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Anonymous replying to -> cunteey 3w

Im just so scared i literally cant do anything, i feel an overwhelming sadness ive never felt. Its like a blackhole and im completely stuck in it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

How long did it take you, im only on day 2 but i feel like i cant breath, we talked about this being s good breakup and he blocked me on everything i feel awful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

two years BUT THATS BC I KEPT GOING BACK TO HIS ASS!!! i sent him a long paragraph and unadded him on september 21st and allowed myself to feel his absence but recognize my emotional freedom as a part of it and by the end of november i started to become myself again !!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

😞it’s so painful I know love

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