Anonymous #1 1d

How do you express anger

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Anonymous #5 1d

not to diminish black women’s experiences—both of these issues are what have historically lead to the justification of abuse towards ethnic women, so i wouldnt call one an “honor” over the other.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Wrong bitch

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Anonymous #5 1d

Stfu bitch

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Anonymous #5 1d

You don’t see being called sexy as better than being called aggressive? 🤨🧐 😂 you and #4 are purposefully letting the point go over your head. Like weirdos will really do ANYTHING to try to minimize the disrespect black women go through by saying “we ALL deal with” when it’s literally not at all the same. Don’t be one of those people. Anyone with an IQ over room temperature would rather be called sexy or spicy over aggressive/ghetto/ratchet. Let’s not play dumb by being fake woke.

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Anonymous #5 1d

Not even sexy, but “hot”. Like lmfao pls be serious. Ik you won’t, you’ll probably just try to use a bunch of buzzwords you got from social media “therapists”, but pls I’m begging you be so fr 😭😂.

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Anonymous #4 1d

It’s not hating to call out double standards. You using that word says so much about how you really think tbh. Very very weird tbh.

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Anonymous #7 1d

And this is the type of mentality men have used historically to justify SA on hispanic women. I dont need “social media buzzwords” to speak on that when its been written in the books, (especially as a hispanic woman who has seen and experienced this myself—I hate it, and so do many others). Also, is anyone under the age of 30 even still using the word “woke” to describe people nowadays? Keep rocking that bright red hat to highlight your ignorance

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Anonymous #5 1d

Lmao nice try but the point still stands that equating being called “hot” (a known compliment) with being called “aggressive” is idiotic asf. They are very clearly not on the same level. Trying to make Hispanic women the victims in a situation that is CLEARLY benefiting them is insanity. Because having negative traits be perceived positively IS beneficial whether you want to admit it or not. Also I’m not MAGA but I’m very much Black 😝 I just call out the bs when I see it.🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous #5 1d

Also yes ppl still use woke. Only magats hate it. But again, great job proving who the ignorant person here really is😬.

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Anonymous #4 1d

I wasn’t hating and I know about how latinas are essentially fetishized. You can relax I was just starting a conversation bc people don’t talk about it

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Anonymous #5 1d

Didn’t truly mean “honor” tbh. Just that one is more accepted (but ik why that is and it’s pretty gross)

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Anonymous #4 1d

Calling out social phenomena is not hating. It's the first step to making things better.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Black women are HIGHLY fetishized and have been systemically 🍇 throughout history as well. Which we all know, so don't make it a competition. OP never pitted the two groups against one another.

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Anonymous #8 1d

Fetishized and masculinized at the same time btw which is so weird. But overall societal views on each female cultural group results in some pretty nasty consequences and normalizes different behaviors, and that’s not a crime to point out. Thx🫶🏾

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh girl I understand it 🫩 you genuinely just can't win. And it's all on a spectrum depending on color and features and har texture because it's allll just racism at the end of the day and race is totally phenotypical and totally made up. It genuinely gives you whiplash but you just have to keep pushing and act like everyone else

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Anonymous OP 1d

Let yourself cool down n then talk abt the issue, literally anything besides yelling lowk

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Anonymous #9 1d

People are allowed to be angry and yell at times. It's a healthy and human response. Our nervous systems would suffer if we didn't. Tone policing BW and telling them how to display their emotions won't fix the issue because that was never the cause to begin with.

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Anonymous #9 1d

In some instances that advice is universally helpful and I can understand where you're coming from! I just think this conversation is too complex to say "don't get mad and people won't stereotype you as angry and aggressive"

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Anonymous #8 1d

I never said it was an issue for other people, I don't yell when I get angry because I don't like being yelled at so why would I do that to another person, and there's nothing wrong w that 😭

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Anonymous #8 1d

Thats not what I meant by my og comment but i totally see how it can be taken that way mb 😓

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Anonymous #9 1d

When you said "let yourself calm down" I thought you were saying it as advice/instructions and not what you do personally. I see now <3

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Anonymous #9 1d

Ngl I feel like some people (not you) are just purposely misunderstanding OP and being decidedly daft so I prob was too quick to correct instead of clarify

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Anonymous #9 1d

What I was really getting at though was yelling isn’t inherently the problem bc it’s an outlet. However, when people get angry they tend to “lose control” over their actions and get violent or purposely say hateful things. You are absolutely within your right to not like when others yell at you and regulate your emotional responses but not every anger response is trying to accomplish the same thing

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Anonymous #7 22h

right and also the ppl denying it are part of the problem and are why these things still exist

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Anonymous OP 9h

Thank you, I see what you mean. It was really just the wording that threw me off, but thank you for also seeing my point

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