Anonymous #1 1w

What did you do to process it? I don’t know where to put these feelings. Im sad and angry and wish I could confront him about it but I can’t, and I don’t think that would be a good idea even if I could

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Anonymous OP 1w

mine was a helllll of a lot easier bc it was a one time hookup, but i also went thru some shit with an ex and i don't think you'll ever be done processing it if im honest. it's hard to wrap ur head around someone u trusted so much betraying u like that, i think its important to over time remove them from everything, block them and delete stuff u have with them. its not the best but u have to remember the only closure u can get from this is unfortunately from urself. he fucked up

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Anonymous OP 1w

it'll never be an easy thing to look back on, it's not ok but it's the truth. all u can do is heal, stand strong in ur boundaries and grow in ur relationship with urself

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Anonymous #1 1w

Yeah, when we were together and even for months after, I would refuse to let myself think about it because it didn’t seem “that bad” and he seemed genuinely sorry. But we broke up in July and I actually cut him off for real a few days ago. Looking back now, I can see how bad our relationship really was and can finally acknowledge what happened. When I think of him, it’s luckily not the first thing I think of. But now I’ve come to terms with this event, and will actively have to heal from it

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’m grateful to not have him in my life anymore and to have had things end when they did. I know I’ve grown a lot in these past few months (especially with my boundaries!!) and I’m proud of myself for it :) thank you for helping, it means a lot. I’m sorry you went through something similar. We got this <3

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Anonymous OP 1w

we do got this girl. healing isn't linear as well so don't beat urself up on this if u have a moment where it hurts to think about. it's completely normal and unfortunately apart of the process. we live on🫶

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