Anonymous #1 5w

He’s always texting her about hanging out and taking her to local punk shows in my state but when I do it he’s like “oh I’m hanging out with (her name) today” then I’m left on delivered for hours and hours tryna make plans with him since he just wants to be friends and nothing else

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Anonymous OP 5w

do you like him? bc if so get the hell outta there. and even tbh if you just wanna be friends maybe just leave it be he sounds lowkey rude. but also idk im trying really hard to be friends with this guy bc we have the same music taste, same major and views etc and we had like the best convo but i don’t want him to think im hitting on him

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Anonymous #1 5w

Idk tbh but I wanna be friends with him because he said straight up that he only sees me as a friend and he wants to get to know me but I guess that’s a lie if he’s only hanging out with his friend and other people he doesn’t even know. We have the same music taste, we both want someone who likes going out and trying new things, we love the same genre of movies, and we just click but if he’s choosing her over me then he’s definitely getting cut off

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Anonymous OP 5w

yeah i’d just back off tbh. i think if you hadn’t said you liked him maybe things could’ve worked as friends but now he can’t not see you as a girl that used to like him and men get weird about that stuff bc of their egos or something. it sucks tho im sorry :/ what music do you like!

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Anonymous #1 5w

We used to be coworkers and I had a thing for him back then but now It’s complicated because he doesn’t know what he wants and it’s making me frustrated because he can’t even text me back but has the all the time in the world to text her at this point I’m gonna self sabotage till he blocks me and I like punk/metal type of music

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