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I sent my ex a letter and I told him some stuff but he hasn’t texted me yet and he has viewed my story. He usually takes time to text back but now I feel embarrassed so I hope he texts back
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Anonymous 4w

Baby if he viewed your story he doesn’t want to talk to you

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Anonymous 4w

sounds like u need to respect him not wanting to talk to u and let him have space. u hurt him, it's not right to keep forcing urself into his life rn when he doesn't need u there to get thru this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

or he could be nervous?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I know I’m in mourning I drove to his house and dropped off a letter. I just need somewhere to mourn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

when did you drop off the letter?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

We dated before and have been on and off and I told him that I kind of slept with another guy and I that I didn’t want our relationship to be ruined etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

A couple of days ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Okay with context … he doesn’t want to talk to you. If I put myself in his shoes (obviously i don’t truly know him but based off what you said), I wouldn’t respond to you. If you told me you slept with another guy and proceeded to to say, “I don’t want to ruin our relationship,” …. Just my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Like I backed off from the guy we did some thing but didn’t go all the way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m just wondering if a letter was too much bc this man never answers his phone for nobody

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Regardless, you were intimate with a guy that wasn’t your boyfriend at the time, even if you didn’t go all the way. I dont know your relationship but you can’t go do that with another man and expect it to not ruin your current relationship. You guys break up, you send him his stuff back + a letter; If I was him, I wouldn’t respond either 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Why do guys care so much though men sleep with everybody and a women will kiss a guy and they act up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You post on the internet, do not expect everyone to agree / support you. I don’t condone cheating / sleeping around of any kind, regardless of gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m just saying in general you don’t have to agree I just wonder why men think differently . I wasn’t sleeping around because me and him weren’t together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

The first part is a whole different conversation in itself but I was not trying to imply that you were sleeping around. I personally believe you royally disrespected your relationship and that’s why he’s not responding. I mean potentially he could, but realistically if he hasn’t already, he won’t.

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