Girl Talk on Sidechat | im 21 why does my mom think she can control who i tell and don’t tell about my relationship? my bf and i have been dating for 3 years and she’s like don’t tell the family about him until you’re sure. I decide to do it and now she’s mad.

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Girl Talk 20w

im 21 why does my mom think she can control who i tell and don’t tell about my relationship? my bf and i have been dating for 3 years and she’s like don’t tell the family about him until you’re sure. I decide to do it and now she’s mad.

Anonymous 20w

“Until you’re sure” makes it sound like she’s not sure. You’ve been dating for 3 years not 3 months I’d say you’re pretty sure. I hate to say it but I think your mom hates your boyfriend

Anonymous 20w

she then proceeds to tell me “we had a deal” mind u i made NO deal. I just said I would do it when im ready. I think 3 years is enough for me to tell my family.

Anonymous

#1 20w

thats the thing she doesn’t hate him. she met him after a year of us dating and now she calls and invites him for dinner. she’ll praise him for helping me move in small things like that. and we had a conversation with my dad where she was like “he’s honestly the perfect guy for u”

Anonymous

#1 20w

she says its because she doesn’t want family to gossip about us but idgaf i don’t want to hide my relationship anymore

Anonymous

OP 20w

Is your family known for gossiping like that?

Anonymous

#1 20w

They do gossip but it’s mainly like if someone is pregnant or idk they got arrested. If they knew I had a bf they would prob say smth and then forget about it a day later. All my cousins are dating so it’s really not a big deal. Just frustrating

Anonymous

OP 20w

There’s def something your mom isn’t telling you if she’s this concerned