Anonymous #1 6d

Unfortunately so many women also have “rape fantasies” and it’s so fucking weird

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Anonymous #2 6d

they are NOT “rape” fantasies. rape is inherently violent, degrading, and criminal and it’s only fantasized about by perpetrators of that crime. comparably, women typically lust for a consensually non-consensual interaction (ex. public transport fondling by a stranger). funny enough, a lot of rape victims suffer from this after their trauma. some even go as far as BDSM after their rape bc they can no longer get sexual satisfaction after their trauma… which is devastating in so many ways.

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Anonymous #1 6d

“a consensual damsel in distress” when the name term literally has non consensual in it. make that make sense real quick

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Anonymous #2 6d

CNC, like most things, is a very safe activity when done with the right people. Enjoying a sexual fantasy does not mean you want it to happen in real life. I am a rape victim who uses CNC to feel in control over my body again. Just because you’re not into it doesn’t mean everyone who is is sick or a rapist.

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Anonymous #2 6d

Rape and cnc are 100% opposite of each other

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Anonymous #3 6d

downvoting instead of just answering the question that pretty much sums you hoes up

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Anonymous #3 6d

As far as I know, consensual non-consensual (cnc) operates in safe words. So the woman/sub does have power over when it stops and continues. So it’s literally not rape, when one party literally has no say

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Anonymous #5 6d

it’s obviously not rape but its role playing assault.. that’s quite literally the book definition... separate from that some women indeed do have rape fantasies so I’m not getting the flack. I don’t care to draw conclusions about the people who participate but simply calling a spade a spade shouldn’t be an issue

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Anonymous #3 6d

there is no woman on this earth that yearns for a violent and degrading violation of their bodily autonomy with a high risk of fatality, if not lifelong repercussions… 😐 i can promise you the woman that you’re imagining does NOT exist.

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Anonymous #1 6d

yeah okay /sex says otherwise lmfao

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Anonymous #3 6d

consent/non-consent does come off as an oxymoron, but if you’re genuinely trying to learn: you can consent to a situation where you’re fully knowledgeable and trusting of the situation & the people involved where they will make decisions FOR you. this kinda what happens with liability waivers, but cnc is an unwritten agreement in a sexual context. you’re allowed and *encouraged* to revoke consent at any time in a cnc experience. NONE of that exists in a sexual assault/rape scenario.

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Anonymous #3 6d

reddit is not real lmao

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Anonymous #1 6d

that’s easier to say than to just come to terms with the fact everything under the sun exists and anything you can imagine. as far as CNC goes I don’t have to learn anything because the textbook definition is clear

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Anonymous #3 6d

like bitch I can downvote too

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Anonymous #3 6d

yeah i just need you to read the second sentence of the second bullet point. women don’t fantasize on the street “god i wish a man would rape me!” but that’s what men typically assume cnc is about, which is completely misinterpreting the concept in a horrific way tbh.

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Anonymous #1 6d

idgaf what men usually interpret it as. I said what I said and that’s the exact definition of what I said.

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Anonymous #3 6d

nobody fantasizes about being the victim of a heinous crime. people roleplay cops & robbers and perform scenes. two very different things with very different intentions. and you do gaf bc my entire comment you first replied to is specifically about how it is getting misinterpreted online… which funny enough i assumed was happening on reddit and you just confirmed that by referencing it lmfao 🥲

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Anonymous #1 6d

no bitch you mentioned MEN and I said I don’t care about what MEN are thinking. you’re still explaining stuff that does not require an explanation when the definition is right there lmfao

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Anonymous #3 6d

So? Actors play villains all the time. You’re talking about men who take advantage of women into CNC - that is not CNC, that is rape. Men into CNC are into it for the same reason women are, it’s nice to enjoy power and control in a controlled and safe environment. Your issue is with unsafe men, not people into CNC.

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Anonymous #4 6d

didn’t mention men at any point I just defined what cnc was. lmao forgot to cite my source though sexualhealthalliance.com

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Anonymous #3 6d

fuck the patriarchy i hope it dies this debate is meaningless and women have the right to their bodily autonomy at all times regardless of what society assumes. don’t forget to carry your favorite potentially dangerous objects when out alone.

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Anonymous #1 6d

I kinda find it funny how OP posted this and then dipped and let you and 3 fight it out.

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Anonymous #5 6d

wasn’t a fight I simply stated facts 😂

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Anonymous #3 6d

it was more like a debate but hey, some of us are just yappers lol

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Anonymous #1 6d

whoops meant to reply to 5 but we cool

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Anonymous #5 6d

I just sit back and observe🍿

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Anonymous #1 6d

Hehe

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Anonymous OP 6d

😂 Honestly me too unless I have something to add 🍿 📺

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Anonymous #1 6d

wasn’t

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Anonymous #1 6d

Wrong! I have seen women use the word rape. Some women have fucked up fantasies. Also women can be rpsts too sooo women can 100% think the way I stated. Plus as a victim of SA I’m very aware how it can affect you mentally and sexually afterwards. Doesn’t change the fact that some women are disgusting and have fantasies ab rape

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Anonymous #4 6d

I’m also a rape victim who partakes in cnc. I actually never even brought up cnc. I said unfortunately women also have rape fantasies which is true. I’ve seen some talk about it where they’d be the victim but women are also capable of sexually assaulting someone so to say women are incapable of having messed up rape fantasies bc you personally use cnc (which was never brought up in my comment) is wrong and pushes a messed up narrative

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