what was the post ? What if he wants you for you and also is sexually attracted to you? if a man is interested in you romantically he’s going to be into you sexually. there’s no avoiding that unless you date an asexual man
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Anonymous#110w
i understand that, however he also knows what my boundaries are. It was about creating a post where it says “he knows where home is” and it is audible sex happening on a blacked out screen.
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Anonymous#110w
also, i have no interest in hookup culture, or giving myself to someone before i truly know who they are and know that they are the person that i am going to spend the rest of my life with.
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Anonymous10w
i mean pretty much purity yeah, it’s just a personal preference lol
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Anonymous10w
that’s fair! just not my speed bc i know i grow attached when physically intimate and i will stay with someone who does not treat me well. it’s happened before
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AnonymousOP10w
oof okay yeah that’s worse than what i was imagining. super distasteful especially since you have made your boundaries clear! good for you for standing on business and knowing yourself well enough to hold those boundaries
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Anonymous#110w
it’s just really disappointing because i genuinely thought he liked me.
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AnonymousOP10w
like i said before it’s definetly possible for him to like you and just be stupid with boundaries.