
stop thinking about all the good girl. this cycle is SOOOOOO UNHEALTHY esp long term. the damage ur doing to urself mentally will already take months to yrs to unlearn at this point. make a list of all of the badness and hurt uve been thru in this, of all the time uve spent crying or upset or dysregulated BECAUSE of this relationship. keep going over the bad over and over, because u owe urself the respect to leave and HEAL. pls choose urself
I promise you will snap out of it eventually and be filled with so much disgust and regret. It may feel like a healthy relationship could never be as good but that feeling doesn’t last. Once you get used to the functional relationship, you’re truly repulsed by anything else. There is no reason to hesitate or stay. You can create a new normal for yourself