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Girl Talk 2w
all love to girls in loving relationships, but i wish more women would give being single a chance. i cannot wait to have a little home to myself, shared with animals, decorated to my tastes, forging my own path, not worried about men or kids for a while.
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Anonymous 2w

inspired by this reel! lol

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Anonymous 2w

My bf is what's keeping me going tbh but i'm not planning on kids at all

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Anonymous 2w

A home to myself? In this economy?

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Anonymous 2w

i did experience being single and it was great and fun but also being with my bf is great and fun

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Anonymous 2w

Being single is fun when all your friends are single. I have like no one to hang out with anymore

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Anonymous 2w

dating i feel like is ok i draw the line at kids tho

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Anonymous 2w

RE FUCKING POST

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Anonymous 2w

honestly, i had planned on being single for a while until i met my boyfriend. i had told myself that i’d never commit myself to someone before i knew i loved them/they were worth it, and that’s what i did :)

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Anonymous 2w

Even if I never end up dating or getting married I definitely want kids as soon as I’m financially stable whether biological or adopted

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Anonymous 2w

EXACTLYYY im genuinely so much happier when im not dating. i love being able to explore my own interests and hobbies and dreams without having to worry about anyone else. i also think having a good group of friends is 1000% more rewarding than a relationship, dating/marriage truly truly truly should never be the biggest dream of anyone’s life

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Anonymous 2w

I genuinely hated being single. And it wasn’t because I lacked external validation/security. My life is good, and I want to share it. And also, sex/cuddles are so much better when you’re in love with the other person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Being single is fun when you have fulfilling relationships that aren’t romantic. If your friends stopped hanging out with you because they’re in relationships, they’re lame. If you leave your village entirely when u start dating that’s not good. Couples shouldn’t isolate themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Pretty much all my friends have been in long term relationships for the last few years, and we do make time for each other, but there’s definitely a part of me that misses when we were all single freshmen. Their partners are their first priority, and I miss when we were that priority for each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

I’m not advocating for not sharing your life w/ people at all. I was talking about romantic relationships & being single. If you don’t want to be single because you hate it, don’t do something you hate? You tried it & decided you need a boyfriend. Okay. (I also never intended this to be about sex. I’m not saying to go try having casual sex if you don’t want to try that)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

ofc you reduced this to having or not having sex 😭 bird behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Finding a happy marriage that lasts is perfectly realistic but a woman owning her own home isn’t? I feel like these are the limiting beliefs that bother me. Yes, incredibly difficult to make ends meet in this economy, I hate this administration with me entire being. But I think there is some truth to picking your hard. My hard is home ownership, that’s all. It’s one of my life goals 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 2w

It fully depends on your income & the place you live’s cost of living—it’s only unrealistic if you think it’s not realistic for a woman to be financially successful & independent. I know multiple women who own homes. they aren’t 24 years old obviously, but after you have a well established career i don’t think it’s at all a nice thing to tell women its unrealistic at any point in time?

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Anonymous 2w

My conversation wasn’t about sex. Full stop. I appreciate #8’s comment on my post the same as anyone else’s, stop policing

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Anonymous 2w

Who are you to judge what people can & cannot say on MY post???

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Anonymous 2w

aren’t you doing the same thing you told 8 not to do..?

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Anonymous 2w

the only combative person here rn is you i’m ngl

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t want to have a conversation about casual sex and I never purported to want to have a convo about that. Sorry if you do. You can make your own post!

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Anonymous 2w

We are done because you’re being blocked

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Anonymous 2w

why in the world do you feel entitled to a step by step plan for her owning a home 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

LITERALLY

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

That must be really special to truly CHOOSE to be with someone after considering & seeing the beauty in all the options before us. Not just doing something because it’s what the default is. ☺️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

My hard is groceries and gas—a home to myself is a fantasy

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