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aita? i found out my girlfriend is trans today. we've been a couple (lesbian) for a month. of course i can love and accept her but i told her it was weird that i found out when she was initiating sex. she's really pissed off and i don't really know wtd
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Anonymous 7w

Is the only thing you’re hung up on the fact that she told you while initiating sex?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i think so.. it just felt disrespectful that we hadn't talked about it before but i think she thinks i think it's a deal breaker but i just don't know how to process this in the moment

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