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at my big age, it is now, at the ripe age of 23 that i am so very tempted to try weed, vape, or even smoking for the first time. all bc im finally making new friends (i won’t do it)
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Anonymous 3w

ive thought about getting into cigs cause of the vibe too ngl, cause wdum when ur stressed out u can just walk out, have a little smoke (without getting high or anything mind u) and then go right back to work like nothing happened?? or smoke one while ur driving?? like that's such a fucking vibe bro

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Anonymous 3w

literally everyone does something. my new sporty friends, my artsy friends, my coworkers. my staying at home and chilling friends and then also my going out friends it’s the fomo that’s getting to me. what’s nice is that no one is encouraging me to try it. it still feels a little sucky tho to be “left out” like not really but kind of. i’m missing a universal experience they all live

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Anonymous 3w

Weed gets a pass, but as someone that has been smoking and vaping (I quit tho!) for the past seven years, literally just never pick up a vape. It makes your head feel fuzzy for 30 seconds at the most, but that goes away when you actually start doing it and it is crazy addictive with zero benefit. Like you genuinely are not missing anything. And personally I love weed, but i’d definitely encourage you to try it with people you feel safe with in a place you feel safe and comfortable.

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Anonymous 3w

Do it on yo own it’s better tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i think the reason i never tried anything before is literally because i was a hermit for lack of a better word lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

but the smell keeps me from ever doing that shit (ironically i smoke weed 💀💀💀💀)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

sorry ur getting fomo though friend, even if ppl aren't offering or anything like that i know it can still feel like ur being left out just cause ur not doing it 🙂‍↕️ but dont let that get to u bookie, u should indulge in things cause u want to not cause other ppl are doing it and u dont want to be left out 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

At one of my jobs I’d just randomly walk out for the day for 5-10 minutes bc wdym I can do that if I’m destroying my health but not when I’m trying to keep myself healthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ty for yapping with me LOL no fr i think it’s the vibe like unfortunately i think i would do it all by myself if i smoked anything. just like people have a smoke sesh i totally would sit around and have a couple of drinks at home with friends but lowkey no one does that and it makes sound alcoholic LMAO i don’t drink much either but only bc no one else does.. unless irs a pregame or special ocasión and like when it’s no one’s birthday/holiday i’ll go a couple months without a drink.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

EXACTLYYYY cause we all know damn well u can literally ONLY do that with cigs, hell even if u wanna get a coffee or go on a quick little walk as a break mid shift you're gonna get weird side eyes at some places but with a cig break?? 🙂‍↔️ thats shit's universal atp

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

but that’s actually something i’d participate in! i actually like my tipsy self i let loose so much and no longer overthink everything and just talk freely, but im not gonna do it by myself ☹️😫 but yeah also if there ever are drinks involved, everything else is involved too so again fomo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Ikr like god forbid I wanna spend 5-10 minutes outside in the beautiful sun instead of my windowless boiling/freezing workplace

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

nah i get u fr, most of the time i smoke alone and tbh i prefer smoking by myself than having smoke seshes half the time 🤷‍♀️ and i grt u with the drinling with friends too, i feel like our generation is less drinking inclined and like i get not getting a drink at the bar cause FUCK that shit's expensive, but like getting together to have a glass of wine or share a really good rum you like? where's the love for that??

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