The anwser is always going to be time, there's no way to speed up this process. You could do anything and everything but if you still have feelings they'll be there for as long as they need to be there. The best way is to not wallow in those feelings, get outside or do something you enjoy with people that make you happy. Breakups suck but that doesn't mean you wasted time or it wasn't worth it, everyone changes you to become who you are today.

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Learn to love and care for yourself more, find passions not linked to your ex, and socialize a comfortable amount that you’d like. I genuinely thought I loved myself enough until my ex broke up with my months ago, and now I’m finding out more things about myself

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He realizes your a good girl and like a good gf but he’s personally not a good bf and it’s hard sometimes to break a “good thing off”

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