Oh I’m sorry girlies if they don’t plan a date, I’m moving on , I have over 9,999K+ matches on tinder and idk I gotta keep it moving 🥲

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No bc if ur second message to me is planning a date, im unmatching you

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I agree tbh. I just started dating apps and everybody immediately wants to hang out and I’m confused

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i’m the exact opposite 😭 i’d rather meet someone and see if we get along before i get attached over text, if it’s been more than two weeks and there’s nothing planned im no longer interested tbh

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I used to be the type that was like eh i dont need to talk much like the date is where we get to know each other, i was once lonelier and liked meeting new people and now im exhausted and busy and dont just be going on a date w anyone

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They don’t have to worry too much about stranger danger and getting killed on dates (many women get killed on dates) so ofc they see nothing wrong with that advice

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TOTALLY AGREE… I get the vibe that only weirdos and murderers want to meet up so quickly. Like if you want to meet up in the first hour of talking I’m 100% sure you don’t get any play

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I don’t use dating apps but I’m not understanding why someone on a dating app being ready to date is a red flag…?

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My girlfriend and I were talking about a month before we went on a date

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