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I haaatte that so many men get the advice “plan a date asap within the first week of talking to them” (on dating apps) from other men. God damn give me a little bit to warm up and catch butterflies before we plan something
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Anonymous 20w

Oh I’m sorry girlies if they don’t plan a date, I’m moving on , I have over 9,999K+ matches on tinder and idk I gotta keep it moving 🥲

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Anonymous 20w

No bc if ur second message to me is planning a date, im unmatching you

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Anonymous 20w

i’m the exact opposite 😭 i’d rather meet someone and see if we get along before i get attached over text, if it’s been more than two weeks and there’s nothing planned im no longer interested tbh

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Anonymous 20w

I used to be the type that was like eh i dont need to talk much like the date is where we get to know each other, i was once lonelier and liked meeting new people and now im exhausted and busy and dont just be going on a date w anyone

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Anonymous 20w

They don’t have to worry too much about stranger danger and getting killed on dates (many women get killed on dates) so ofc they see nothing wrong with that advice

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Anonymous 20w

TOTALLY AGREE… I get the vibe that only weirdos and murderers want to meet up so quickly. Like if you want to meet up in the first hour of talking I’m 100% sure you don’t get any play

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Anonymous 20w

I don’t use dating apps but I’m not understanding why someone on a dating app being ready to date is a red flag…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

damn okay 😭😭

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