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I really want to wait until marriage for sex and intimacy. It feels like it’s the best choice in today’s society.
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Anonymous 15h

Just be aware of the fact that many guys will rush into marriage to get to that point and yet will not be compatible with you in the long run. Make sure you don’t rush into it. :)

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Anonymous 17h

don’t know why it would be the best choice in today’s society, but you do you. just be prepared for the fact that you’ll end up with a fraction of the dating pool, and you’re not just eliminating the horndogs that only want sex. you’re also eliminating good men that you’d have a healthy relationship with, just because they value that kind of intimacy in a relationship. which is completely normal and doesn’t mean that sex is ALL they want.

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Anonymous 17h

How does it make a difference in todays society?

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Anonymous 15h

I’m waiting for marriage too! It’s just what makes more sense in my brain

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Anonymous 15h

I date other women, so that solves the problem for me. Won’t get me pregnant or use me for sex like those idiot men. But with men I used to set a time limit, like only after a year or more we have sex. That way it would be very inconvenient for the fuckboys to quickly get their way and leave.

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Anonymous 8h

I relate to wanting to wait for something special but waiting until you are legally bound and it’s harder to separate may not be the best idea. People don’t realize how important it is to be sexually compatible. You could be with the greatest guy in the world but still end up unhappy if you’re not a good match sexually

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

all everyone wants is sex. some men will love you for who you are and some will say they love you bc they like the sex or ur body. plus you can’t get diseases if you don’t have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

I mean u def can get stis from kissing or bloodborne pathogens but i get what you mean. Do you have an issue in general with just having sex or is it the objectification part that feels icky

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

i really don’t care. not many men want to get with me and i don’t go out of my way to talk to men. i have a fwb and we’ve been fucking for over a year now and friends for 8 years and before we started fucking i was in a 5 year relationship

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