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Is chewing with his mouth open a dealbreaker even if he’s a nice person? Like I watched food drop back out of his mouth onto his plate and he ties his pants with shoe strings but he’s a good listener and pays attention to my moods.
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Anonymous 16h

for me mouth open chewing is a fuck no but that’s bc i have misophonia and the sound of it is genuinely enraging, like 5 times more irritating than nails on a chalkboard and being irrationally angry😭 but if it’s not something that bothers u and u like hanging out with him then consider giving him another chance. ur dealbreakers are unique to u

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Anonymous 16h

if he does this i promise you there's other disgusting habits that he's hiding from you. so that itself wouldn't be the dealbreaker but im sure if u observed him over time ud find more to add to this list

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Anonymous 16h

Yuck

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Anonymous 16h

No offense

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Anonymous 9h

Pros: Good listener Will pay attention to my mood and go buy snacks if I’m in a bad mood or sad Did the dishes Cleaned my cats litter box My cats both like him balances out my anxiety and attachment issues with his own

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Anonymous 9h

Cons: Chews w/ mouth open Shoe string belt He’s a door dasher Currently lives with parents 9 year age gap Hates spending money—his car is missing the inside door and doesn’t have AC

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Anonymous 9h

Moving in together is in discussion right now because he stays over often anyway but that feels like a big commitment if there are things like this I’ll have to deal with. Would it be shallow to break up with him because of his quirks when he has a good personality?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

GIRL HE DOORDASHES AND LIVES WITH HIS PARENTS AT 9 YRS OLDER THAN U PLS BREAKUP AND DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM. UR NOTICIJT THESE ICKS MORE BC ITS UR INNER THOUGHTS TRYING TO GET U OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP. HE IS GOING TO BE A BUM FOR LIFE AND MOOCH OFF U. HE CANT EVEN TAKE CARE OF HIS OWN CAR WHEN HE HAS NO RENT TO PAY

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

IM SORRY NINE YEAR AGE GAP?????

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

nvm the nine year age gap makes all of his other bad things WAY worse diva no

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