Anonymous #1 2w

Ig that’s fair, I feel like I just always hear about ppl getting approached on campus, like my roommate, but she goes out to the bars more than me so ig that’s probably y

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Anonymous #2 2w

I just wish I knew what it was, like if I really am just unattractive or if it’s them being scared. Ik it’s probably both cause I won’t be everyone’s type but ugh I just wish I knew how I was perceived

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Anonymous OP 2w

it’s not necessarily one or the other or both it could be neither. them not approaching you is not a deciding factor is what I’m trying to tell you because super gorg women don’t get approached either because they’re intimidating. so attractiveness is a just another factor. the guys that party / go out are def probably more likely to be the kind that approach too I feel

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Anonymous #2 2w

I’ve kinda always had a little peeve with the whole gorgeous women don’t get approached saying cause would the men that know they’re attractive not approach those women?

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Anonymous #2 2w

But I do agree that guys at a bar r more likely to hit on girls while out

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Anonymous OP 2w

idk but these men know what they’re capable of and it’s usually not much so if a woman looks too put together or way above his capabilities he knows better. I said that to say it’s not always about attraction but either way I wouldn’t depend on it for feed back about how you feel about yourself long story short they’re not that special and they rarely look like much to look at themselves to be valuing their attention

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Anonymous #2 2w

Mmm possibly, I can see what u mean And that’s true, I shouldn’t let it get to me and base my value on never being approached. I just wanna find and experience love girl and it’s hard to not relate the two, but I’ll work on it <3

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