Girl Talk on Sidechat | or maybe y’all are just condemning men for being gender nonconforming bc you haven’t deconstructed sexism in your hearts yet idk. a feminine man is not a red flag, it is a morally neutral trait. if you’ve ever worn pants grow up and get over it

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Girl Talk 6w

or maybe y’all are just condemning men for being gender nonconforming bc you haven’t deconstructed sexism in your hearts yet idk. a feminine man is not a red flag, it is a morally neutral trait. if you’ve ever worn pants grow up and get over it

Girl Talk 6w

If a guy has tote bags, painted nails (specifically black), pearls, and Sanrio stuff RUN. This is a performative male who is “not like the other guys” but they’re exactly the same

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Anonymous 6w

god forbid a guy does anything feminine ☹️ i remember back when i thought i was a cis boy i was shamed for doing anything feminine by a lot of girls i knew

Anonymous 6w

Right like shitty men come in all colors. If it’s not a performative man, it’s an openly bigoted man. Or maybe even worse, a secretly bigoted man. I don’t want any of them

Anonymous 6w

Oh my god and while we’re talking about it when people were BIG on the “that’s bare minimum” it made me SOO mad. Because why are we insulting men for doing something NICE? Like maybe it is bare minimum but do we really think saying “you’re not doing enough” is going to make them WANT to do the “bare minimum” again?? Like imagine a man said that about a woman we would RIOTTT

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#3 6w

I feel like so many people on this group are taking a step back from feminism like it’s fundamentally about being equal, we should not be trying to be like the oppressors 😭