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Girl Talk 1w
Why do guys want a woman with goals and ambitions but get so upset when we don’t want to put those aside to have kids
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Anonymous 1w

I have a hinge prompt that says I want to be the cool child free aunt and a man responded to it with “there’s no point in dating you then”. Did he think his message would’ve magically changed my mind?

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Anonymous 1w

and a lot of them don’t seem to respect that actually issues i have with having kids aside from just not wanting them. like it’s much deeper and more than me not wanting them

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Anonymous 1w

It’s almost like they only want a woman with ambitions so that they can be the reason she no longer has those ambitions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I got told by a guy no one would ever marry me bc I don’t want to change my last name or have kids 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I have the same wants but at that point I’ll be single with my friends, romatasy bf, vib bzz bzz, and dignity not dealing with a whiny loser boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Ahhshdhdfhdhdhdh I hate that this is a thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Reminds me of Ballerina Farmer

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Me too 😞

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