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me and my college friends (we all moved away after graduating) get together once every year and now one of them wants to bring her bf 😟 not just to the city but to the actual dinner. am i an asshole for not wanting him there/saying no that’s not okay
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Anonymous 1w

you’re not an asshole. it’s only a get together for you and your roommates and it’s reasonable to be mad that she wants to invite a man

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Anonymous 1w

You’re not an asshole but I don’t think it’s crazy for her to want her important people to meet

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

then she should plan it for a separate time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

we’ve known him since freshman year of college (no one was close with him except her) but he dropped out and moved back home so he wasn’t a part of our friend group

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