
This is something I’ve been thinking about too. A lot of my family that spends Christmas together is first generation so none of us have to split up ever…I really can’t imagine not spending Christmas with them but my gfs family does a very big Christmas party so it’s not like she can miss that either
It caused a lot of emotional distress for me last year as we had planned to spend it together then a week before he backed out and it sounded like his mother didn't want us to even though I just got back from a semester abroad and hadn't seen him in 6 months so it's tense and now I'm avoiding it all together but wonder when that point will be for us? When we get engaged idk?