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I know I’m not cut out to be a mom bc I just saw a comment that said “being a mother comes first my identity comes second” and physically recoiled
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Anonymous 3w

i learned that giving birth can BREAK!!! your vertebrae so. none for me thanks!

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Anonymous 3w

Having to deal with kids??? Nope .

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Anonymous 3w

i plan to have kids but yall will never catch me saying shit like that. i am always me first, there’s a reason we’re not born as parents.

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Anonymous 3w

I also don’t want kids and know the lifestyle isn’t for be but at the same time I’m kinda glad to know there are parents who still put their kids first idk the wording is jarring is weird but when somebody becomes a parent regardless of gender they need to put that kiddos safety above their personality and identity but I don’t feel like being a parent means losing that part of themselves either? Idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Break your vertebrae, your pelvis, make you go blind, give you sepsis…. Yea if I ever feel like I need a kid I’m waiting til those artificial wombs roll around

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

I got stuck and broke my moms pelvis when she was in labor with me 😬

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