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idk if its weird but sometimes i catch myself wishing i were more attracted to conventionally attractive guys just to relate to other ladies more 😭 there’s nothing wrong with a type but still, gets so tiring telling ppl that i’m not into ppl they like
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Anonymous 1w

i feel like “conventionally attractive” guys are actually chosen because they’re attractive to other men. guys tend to prefer men who are more muscular and taller bc they see them as competition, while girls tend to find men attractive when they seem to have more personality (sweet, funny, charming) and based on their ability to be a good father and husband. interestingly, women also find more angular/taller women attractive bc we see them as a threat, but men find rounder, shorter women more-

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Anonymous 1w

i’m just a slut for chubby/fat comfy guys with round faces and nice facial hair with some cute glasses 🥺 i need a cuddlebug so bad where is my human body pillow PLEASE

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

attractive. this is why women tend to find bella hadid more attractive than sydney sweeney, but men find sydney sweeney more attractive than bella hadid. this is also why men find guys like henry cavill and chris evans more attractive than like timothee chalamet or guys with dad bods, but women find those guys more personable and appealing. tldr: ideas of male attractiveness are SET UP BY MEN

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

no ur ABSOLUTELY right. fat guys with a sense of fashion literally melt me instantly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i love them so muchhhhh 😵‍💫 my recent ex (who i’m on great terms with) was such a comfortable guy omfg i love a man i can slam a burger with and bury my face in that tummy. it hits like nothing else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

very very true. when i turn a “conventionally attractive” guy down (aka muscular, angular face, etc.) they act like i’m an alien speaking another language 😭😭 and they always resort to insulting the kind of people i like and insulting me as well. like hi, not everyone wants an athlete bro go bone your hbs in the locker room lol

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