Anonymous #1 5w

Glad you asked, in order of which approach to attempt 1st: 1) provide support for birth family. Provide cash, shelter, food, basics and ongoing support to families in need since 98% of birth moms relinquish rights simply bc they don’t have the resources to parent 2) legal guardianship (NOT adoption) given to any family members wiling to step in 3) legal guardianship to any close friends or community members willing to step in 4) last resort: legal guardianship (not adoption) given to strangers

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m mostly uniformed on this but what’s the difference between legal guardianship and adoption

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Anonymous #2 5w

Adoption in the US changes birth certificates. And in many states adoptees are unable to access their original birth certificate until they’re 18. It changes who their BIRTH parents are, can change the date, can change the name etc. Legally severing all legal ties to the birth family which the adoptee may not be able to consent to. It also doesn’t entitle them to access to family health history

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Anonymous OP 5w

Oh dang ok didn’t know that

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I was assuming she had been adopted lol

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What am I wrong about? And you have no idea who I am or what I’ve gone thru like you don’t even know my relation to this

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What doesn’t work? How am I anti adoptee? Mr sharing my random thoughts as they come across is not starting an argument bc the community likes to start arguments with words that aren’t there holy shit

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