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my partner had a bad day and i asked if i can come see him. he said he had a lot to do and doesn't want to see anyone rn. just checked his loc and he's at the movies with his roommate. it makes me upset, any help?
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Anonymous 20w

he told me he doesn't want me to see him upset and ik he's going through a hard time mentally rn. i understand he doesnt like me seeing him in a bad mood and friends require less energy/effort, but it just still hurts he can hang out with friends and not me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

You don’t know what happened between them at home, the roommate and him definitely talked, maybe unloaded some emotional baggage in conversation, and since in person it is easier- talked up the idea of a movie and it was to better his feelings. It was time, place, and proximity. Don’t read too deeply in it, he wanted to make himself and his friend feel better and not let him down face to face.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

but he always does this. he doesn’t want to see me but will see others, and bc he’s had a bad week in general he hasn’t seen me all week bc he doesn’t want me to see him like that, yet he’ll spend everyday with his friends

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