That is not normal to me at least. You could ask if there is something else going on that is causing her to act this way, but at the end of the day your friendships should improve your life not make it worse.

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update for all of you: I texted her and said “hey, I feel like things are weird between us, I just wanted to check in make sure everything is ok.” no response and put her phone on dnd! i’m officially over it

12

it’s not normal to treat anyone that way

8

it’s not normal BUT it does happen to a lot of people quite often. i don’t know the reasoning for it other than immaturity / pining for attention

6

No. Had a friend who did this in hs, best thing I did was cut her off. No one’s got the energy to deal with that shit

6

Had a friend do this. She just so happened to be my roommate and turns out she was reading through my journal with other people periodically. She would also only reach out again if it benefitted her. You should 100% do what number 1&2 are saying, I wish I did sooner

6

@ 2 thank you, I really needed to hear that. this happens OFTEN & it really drains me

5

@ 1 it won’t let me reply to people, but I literally have tried talking to her and I called her today. then sent her a text saying like “hey just checking in call me back whenever” she halfswiped me and hasn’t texted me back since ☹️ I just want a normal friendship

4

Nope!

4

another update: she sent me a blank snap and I sent her a text saying “hey this sucks what did I do” and no response. genuinely what psychological torture is going on rn

4

@1 lm so close to. I’m gonna send her another text basically saying like “idk what I did but I have a lot of love for you and i’m sorry for whatever I did” she also scares me bc she knows so much about me and always talks about how she wants to ruin ppls lives if they do her dirty. like bro

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