i go over without sleeping over she’s asks why i don’t sleepover anymore but i don’t know how to tell her i just physically can’t sleep in that room

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If y’all are close enough I would sit her down and tell her you don’t feel comfortable staying over, but you’d love to help her clean if she needs the help. Sometimes someone just needs a helping hand

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clean. they have a guest room which is where i would sleep if i slept over but they have the litter box right next to the bed on a night stand and there’s constantly litter on the bed (ignoring the fact that your also sleeping with cat shit in your face) and they haven’t washed the sheet in i would say at least a year which is also gross to me because her boyfriend has friends over who sleep in the bed as well. i just don’t know what to do because she asks me to sleepover every weekend and when.

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